You may know him as Fez in the sitcom That ’70s Show or Carlos Madrigal in From Dusk till Dawn: The Series. But the ladies know him as the player of hearts, Wilmer Valderrama.
He has been linked with several high-profile women throughout his career, from Demi Lovato to Mandy Moore. Although he is pretty well settled right now with his fiancee Amanda Pacheco -with whom he has a daughter- his past relationship has entertained fans for a good amount of time.
He did find love after a lot of drama, but for people that missed out on the drama of Valderrama’s relationships, here’s a quick recap of Wilmer Valderrama’s dating history.
Name | Time |
Christina Milian | 1998 |
Ariana Richards | 1999 |
Jennifer Love Hewitt | Late 1999 |
Mandy Moore | 2002-2004 |
Lindsay Lohan | 2004 |
Ashlee Simpson | 2004-2005 |
Rihanna | 2009 |
Avril Lavigne | 2009 |
Demi Lovato | 2010-2016 |
Amanda Pacheco | 2020-Present |
Christina Milian

Teen love stories always make our hearts go “AWWWW” when we hear them. Christina Milian and Wilmer Valderrama dated each other back in 1998.
They were teenagers and quite smitten by each other. They dated for three months before breaking up. Well, it was a teen love story and they were pretty young so let us hope there was no bad blood between them.
Ariana Richards

Ariana Richards and Wilmer Valderrama briefly dated each other for a month in 1999. Not much has been said about their fling but the former couple was spotted together at Varsity Blues Premiere in January 1999.
It is speculated that the pair dated from January 1999 to February 1999.
Jennifer Love Hewitt

Reportedly, Jennifer Love Hewitt and Wilmer Valderrama dated back in 1999. They allegedly started dating in late 1999.
The actors kept their relationship under wraps for many years. Even years after their breakup, they did not say a word about what they shared.
But here comes the interesting part. Valderrama stated in an interview that the two actually dated.
He further mentioned that he would rate 8/10 in the bedroom for Hewitt. This led fans to go wild as it confirmed that they were in a relationship for real.
Hewitt, however, denied them being together. She said they were never romantically involved.
Hmm. Now, that is some drama that Valderrama stirred.
Mandy Moore

Valderrama seems to have a habit of stirring drama in public with his relationships. He dated Mandy Moore from 2002 to 2004. Moore was practically a child when they dated; she was 16 years old while Valderrama was 21 years old.
Their relationship did raise quite a few eyebrows but the former lovers did not care much. The pair met when she was 15 at a photo shoot for a teen magazine.
Moore even went on to admit in an interview that he was her “first, real, true boyfriend.” It certainly implies the strong feelings she had for him.
They were very much devoted to each other while they were together. However, the same cannot be said about them post their breakup.
Valderrama put a few claims in a notorious interview with Howard Stern. He claimed that he was the first person to take Moores’s virginity.
His false claims put Moore in extreme distress as the media and paparazzi began flocking her about the authenticity of this claim. Moore later revealed that although she did deeply care about him, she was shocked by the false claims that he put forth and how out of character that action was.
It was really petty of Valderrama to spread false rumors about his ex.
Lindsay Lohan

Lindsay Lohan and Wilmer Valderrama dated for several months in 2004. Lohan was 18 years old at the time of their relationship. It seems that Valderrama had a thing for underage girls back then.
The pair developed a really good bond during their time together. Their bond is strong to date and proof of that lies in an interview between Lohan and PEOPLE magazine.
“Seriously, I think he’s one of the best guys any girl could be with. He’s really sweet. It’s very fun,” she said.
If only all relationships ended like theirs.
Ashlee Simpson

Rumors again seemed to find their way to Valderrama as soon after his break up with Lohan, he found himself wrapped up in rumors about him and Ashlee Simple being together. Apparently, they dated each other for a year before calling it quits.
However, both sides denied the claims. Furthermore, when Simpson released a “Boyfriend”, it added more spark to the rumors.
Soon after the release of the song, Simpson revealed that she wrote the song inspired by Valderrama and Lohan’s relationship and their time together. She claimed the rumors to be false and that she and Valderrama are simply close friends.
Rihanna

Rihanna Wilmer apparently dated the Barbadian singer in 2009.
Both sides have neither confirmed nor denied their relationship. But the two were seen getting extremely cozy at the Geisha House in Hollywood.
Avril Lavigne

Valderrama again found himself in rumors of dating Avril Lavigne in 2009. This time, however, the rumors turned out to be true.
Lavigne and Valderrama started dating sometime after she filed for divorce from Deryck Whibley. The two hit the romance very quickly but soon found themselves facing obstacles.
Although they did share a mutual attraction, Lavigne and Valderrama parted ways two months after dating as they did not seem to find common ground.
Demi Lovato

We know you have been waiting for us to bring up this one. Let’s dive right into it.
Demi Lovato and Wilmer Valderrama dated from 2010 to 2016. They shared an age gap of 13 years and had a pretty rocky relationship.
During the time of their relationship, Lovato struggled heavily with sobriety. She has, however, cited that Valderrama has helped her and cared for her while she struggled with sobriety.
Lovato did speak fondly about Valderrama in many interviews after her documentary Simply Complicated was released. She revealed that she fell in love with him the moment she saw him.
The two mutually decided to separate six years after dating as they felt they were better off as friends. Their relationship was an on-and-off one.
Amanda Pacheco

Wilmer definitely has a thing for younger females. It turns out that his fiancee, Amanda Pacheco, is his eleven years junior.
But they are both deeply in love as they got engaged after a few months of dating. The couple welcomed their daughter on 15th February 2021.
The wedding bells are due any day so we all better expect the big surprise any time. We hope Wilmer finally decides to settle down.
Conclusion
Valderrama does have a long, dragged-out dating history. He has a history of dating many incredible women. He did do some of them wrong by spreading false rumors in order to gain media attention.
But let us look at the bright side where he’s finally decided to get married and be a family man.
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